Your Money Goes Further. A Lot Further.
You're Not Bad With Money. American Prices Are Just Insane.
There is a specific moment that occurs for most Americans after they’ve been living abroad for two or three months. It arrives at a market, or a restaurant, or the moment they hand cash to their housekeeper at the end of the month. The moment is this: they do the conversion in their heads and experience a brief cognitive malfunction because the number is too small.
Not suspiciously small.
Not developing-world-poverty small.
Just — the correct price for the thing, in a country where prices are not being inflated by the accumulated dysfunction of the American supply chain, the American healthcare overhead, the American litigation premium, the American zoning regime, the American cost of labor for service work that has been priced out of reach for most middle-class families.
American pricing is not normal. You have been conditioned to accept it.
(Once again, we’ll continue our discussion of the family in Austin, Texas, as our US comparison.)
Household help.
In Mexico City, a full-time housekeeper — someone who comes five days a week, cleans, does laundry, and often cooks — earns $400–500 a month. This is not exploitation; it is a living wage in the local economy, often with benefits, and Mexican housekeepers are professional in the way that American service culture used to be before we priced it into a luxury. In Medellín, the same arrangement runs $350–450. In Palermo, a part-time cleaner who comes three days a week runs €500–600 a month.
In Austin, a cleaning service that comes twice a month costs $300–$ 400 (where I live in Minneapolis, it costs me roughly $350 a week). A full-time housekeeper in a US city, at minimum wage plus taxes, would cost $3,500–4,500 a month — if you could find someone willing to take the job at those rates, which increasingly you cannot, because the housing costs in any American city have made domestic service employment economically incoherent for the workers.
Abroad, the professionally managed home is accessible to families earning $80,000 a year. In America, it is a luxury purchased by the very wealthy. This is one of the most significant lifestyle differentials that doesn’t show up in headline cost-of-living comparisons.
Food.
The Ballarò market in Palermo opens at six in the morning. By seven, you can buy a kilo of fresh ricotta for €3, a whole branzino for €8, and a bundle of artichokes so large it requires two hands for €2. The produce is from farms an hour away. It tastes like the thing it is, rather than a refrigerated approximation.
Grocery basket for a family of four per week in Palermo: €90–120. The same basket — adjusted for quality, proximity to harvest, and the difference between a tomato and a tomato — runs $180–250 in an American grocery store.
In Medellín, the weekly grocery haul from a neighborhood market runs $60–80 for a family of four. This includes avocados at $0.30 each, mangoes in six varieties, fish delivered that morning, and flowers for the table, all of which cost almost nothing.
Dining out in Palermo: a sit-down dinner for four adults at a good restaurant — white tablecloth, wine, pasta, secondi, the works — runs €35–50. Not a tourist trap. An actual restaurant where Palermitans eat on a Tuesday night.
In Austin, the equivalent dinner is $120–180 before tip.
Healthcare in daily life.
A GP visit in Lisbon at a private clinic: €25–45. You call, you get an appointment within 48 hours, and you see the doctor. No referral required. No insurance authorization. No surprise bill arriving six weeks later, itemizing a “facility fee” you didn’t know you’d agreed to.
A specialist consultation — cardiologist, dermatologist, orthopedist — at a private clinic in Madrid: €60–120. The waiting room has magazines from this decade.
An ER visit in Medellín for a broken arm — including X-rays, setting, and cast: $180. This happened to a client. He paid out of pocket. He then looked up what the same treatment had cost his brother in Houston. The brother’s bill, after insurance: $4,200.
These numbers don’t just represent savings. They represent a fundamental change in what daily life feels like for a family operating at a middle-class income level.
In Austin, a $150,000 household is a household under constant financial pressure. The house is fine, but the mortgage is a weight. The groceries are fine, but the cart always comes in higher than expected. The kids need things, and those things cost what they cost. There is no room. There is no slack. Every month is a managed deficit or a break-even, and the sense that you are working constantly and accumulating nothing is not a failure of discipline — it is the correct reading of the math.
In Lisbon or Medellín or Palermo, a $150,000 income — or $100,000, or $80,000 — produces a life with slack. A full household staff. Restaurants whenever the mood strikes. Healthcare that doesn’t require a financial calculation before you call the doctor. A savings rate. An investment account that is actually growing.
The same person. The same income. An entirely different life.
American prices are not a law of nature. They are the output of a set of policies, zoning, legal, and structural decisions that have made the American cost of living among the highest in the world, while delivering, in many categories, less than what the same dollar buys in a dozen other countries.
You are not bad with money. You are just paying American prices.
The question I get most often after people read something like this is: okay, but where specifically, and how? The operational answer — which countries, which cities, which visa pathways, which financial structures, what the first six months actually look like — is what Borderless Living covers in depth, and what Borderless Concierge handles end-to-end for clients who want a guide rather than a reading list.




As always you nail the truth with compelling accuracy. The only notes I have two months to the day of leaving the US is that it didn’t take 2-3 months to experience this 🤯 feeling. We have felt it multiple times a day in Thailand since arriving.
And it spans all you described and more like how our phone plans are now around 14 dollars a month each versus the 193 we handed Verizon every month for much less quality/ coverage.